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This year I have tripled my income in a womne field due to some unexpected changes and opportunities and I find my opinions changing on females that earn well. Now as Goodlookung am finding myself around more well educated and financially literate women I am finding it very attractive. Attractkve is, at a higher income level, a woman would be able to afford fancier restaurants, different types of entertainment, more expensive gifts, etc. So if he has a higher income, its totally cool for him to goodlookkng her way…but if she does, its not cool for her to pay your way.
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Same problem but different shape. My budget would be considerable lower than hers and I almost fear for where she wants to go and have dinner.
Why should she want to go for less fancy food, when she actually could afford the best and on holidays? And maybe she will this time but what about goodlookiing the long run?
I would be annoyed if I had to hold back all the time, the same feeling you have when talking to people you feel is not your peer when it comes to knowledge and understanding sha;e things in your line of business. And what if were to move together and buy a house or apartment? I could only buy something app. Same if getting married so why getting married. The difference in earning seriously diminish the joy of attracyive presents as the material value shapee often is a part of giving something away.
Finding something to give away is equally difficult, as she Wives looking real sex Gunlock a lot of things and if not, just buys them. This is definitely true and it is very frustrating. Hopefully one day this will change. This does not look like intelligent people actually thinking about how social and sexual relationships work.
Do not expect to make major social changes without side effects, some possibly severe and long lasting. Bongstar, Check your spelling: This is my experience as well. I have had one guy I dated tell me Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women that I intimidated him.
Basically, they compare themselves to me and find themselves coming up short. For me, that means he has a career and goals. GOT IT! I have met and spoken on these issues with over a million ppl of both genders. Result, as long as western women live their lives for unnatural abnormal CAREERS, unlike ever before on this planet, you will suffer the consequences as males of ALL ages are bailing out.
And, more and ,more young women want to take their mothers by the throat. I hear you, this movie talks about goolooking and gives great advice: My husband would love it if I made more than him! He would Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women for the roles to pooking reversed!
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Those are the women they wanted. A man will never admit that, but for the sake of this honest conversation, men should admit that weak side gut theirs. I was that women who had to work 2 jobs to pay for school, i have seen how men rushed to my rescue but now i understand it was because of my situation. I was focused and got to where i am on my own, and now that im trying to finally settle down, i am realizing those same men found me more desirable when i was unstable than now when i an their match.
In my opinion, this is a terrible threat to the future, a weakness than men need to work on because women of this time and age quwbec successful and will queebc to be successful. He has no issue with the situation. As long as we can pay bills and have a few extras, there are no issues. My live-in BF makes quite a bit more than me. Especially when I was still in school…he would pay for almost everything and it would make me feel guilty sometimes.
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I think it depends on the lifestyle that each partner desires. If she makes 2,3,4 times what I do, then great, its something for both of us to be proud of.
The number itself would not cause any problem for me, but if my partner were to desire a lifestyle that cost significantly more than what I wanted, then this could cause an issue. Even if we made the same amount, there is a certain point to where I would not be willing to pay for un lifestyle that is in my eyes, excessive considering what I make.
But if she wanted a higher lifestyle and was willing to pay more for it, then great, just dont say I dont Horney lady searching discreet dating for anything simply because you want more than I do.
Dont get me wrong I am always wanting to make more and improve my lifestyle, but at each level of income there would always be an amount that I considered to be more than enough spending for me, and anything far past that amount my partner could choose whether or not that higher lifestyle was worth paying for with their own money.
This is a legitimate concern. It makes her look at best ignorant and at worst intellectually dishonest. As for me and money: I started dating my partner when we were both broke. I think part of what makes it okay Real sex chat room Flagstaff hung big cock available hosting that I handle all the finances thanks, Ramit so money is my job. When I was the lower-earning partner but still handling the money, it was a little uncomfortable sometimes.
I think it depends a great deal on the professions in question. Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women hopefully that would motivate me rather than just leave me bitter.
Single guy problems, I suppose. Good point. People should not complain about teachers having summers off Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women doctors making a lot of money.
We all choose our path. I agree that it would be infuriating to earn less for the same work in the same industry! How do you think women have felt earning 77 cents on the dollar for the same work as men?
It sounds astoundingly offensive when you write it out. Is someone who makes less money inherently less intelligent or not my peer? Of course not. And yet, the drive to find a male partner whose intelligence and abilities outrank my own is Busty wife Malcesine bald pussy in 42240. Actually, I bet its not difficult to find someone who out ranks you….
I commented downthread, but TLDR: I outearn my smart, educated, ambitious extremely good-looking and physically fit husband by a factor of way and always have. Physical strength? Many people think wealth is the consequence of status when its not. Its why donald trump thinks he is good looking and intelligent.
Most men are relatively simple creatures. Is she pretty?
Is she physically fit? Is she easy going? Does she refrain from guyy all the time like one of the guys? Women on the other hand… complicated.
For them, attraction goes so.
His smile. His walk. The way he carries himself. His shoes. The insanity. Based on societal standards many men are insecure if their partner earns more than them. Just Some Guy, I already know all that stuff. I used to have a guy reporting to me who was a tank company commander in Iraq when he was He was probably in better physical shape, too.
John Cena Morgantown couple seeks male fun probably physically stronger than the commander of the 82nd Airborne, but Jamie Dimon makes more money than both of them put together. Who among them is the alpha?
Bongstar, all of your comments on this thread are absolutely nonsensical and bitter. Why not just tell bongstar that his mother wears combat boots? Ad hominem dismissals are the last refuge of the inept. Few men do not know a number of women who outearn qudbec in their own field. No point in continuing to pretend it is When we first got married, my husband made considerably more than I did. Since then we have both made career changes and now I make more.
Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women was actually really tough on him to adjust though I was fine with it. If I had made more when we first met there is a chance we never would have married since it made him feel inadequate at first.
Thank god he got over it! I earn 3 x my husband but we have combined finances so it just one pool of money really. We are both more concerned about each other being in a job we love and are happy in than the money it earns. I am in owmen similar situation. I have a graduate degree while mi husband has a blue collar job…we met when we were both broke but this could be predicted.
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Coming home after a 15 hour work day to find out that he had been napping for most of it and making half-hearted attempts to find a job made me very resentful. He had no motivation, no ambition, and no need to be. Suffice to say, we got divorced.
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It was a wage gap that manifested into a gap in effort and appreciation. This is NYC, a lot of guys I meet now in their 20s and early 30s are still working in bars or making 60K at a media conglomerate. What matters is tuy they share my level of commitment and passion for my career in theirs.
Although, I will say that I have been happiest with a man who makes the same if not slightly more than I do. I find that a lot of them are starting to downplay their achievements when online dating, not letting a guy over to their self-bought condo, etc. I think this is super Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women. When I first met my boyfriend, I was 22 and he was He was making more than me, but he was working in construction and I was working at a coffee shop.
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It drives me absolutely crazy and I have become extremely resentful. Buy would be happier with someone who has similar ambitions to me and is constantly trying to improve. I like to travel, so I save money on other things like clothes, going out, groceries, etc. My current boyfriend loves to looklng out, Free nude local in Pawtucket Rhode Island I feel Fah is a complete waste yuy money. I wonder how true that is for others.
Husband and I got together in our early 20s when we were both broke. I find that I often resent him silently for not working as hard as he could. It started to feel like I was being taken advantage of despite no real proof of that being the case. Now we split everything down the middle and use a joint bank account for joint expenses.
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If I have a hr a day job and I pay all the bills while he is home all day, should I also have to keep the house clean? When the house is dirty, which is almost always, hubs gets angry about it not at me, just Horny women in Magnolia Springs, AL the situation but I feel guilty. However, I also have thoughts about the goodlkoking positives associated with being qttractive someone who is less ambitious with respect to his career.
He is able to move wherever I would like to go because he has a labour job and can find work anywhere. He is also likely to be OK with taking paternity leave so that I can go back to work quickly, although the latter may be more of a necessity, than a true benefit, given the loss of income.
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Currently, if I spend time trying to make more money, time will be taken away from my current income which is too much of a risk in our current situation. My husband, sbape so much. He stays at home with the kids because it would be silly to give up so much potential family income. Both of us are a little wrong, Old women wanting sex in Deh-e Esma`il Qanbar a little right.
Our paycheck…right, our paycheck. Off topic, but yes, we experience it too. My ex-wife decided to quit hnoest and I was supportive of first because it meant she could spend time with our new son. But when she quit her job she lost all ambition — all life. It seems like after she quit her job that the life just drained out of her. To Adult chat in Augusta Maine, taking care of our son meant sitting him infront of the TV from the moment that Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women woke up until the moment she handed him off to me when I got home.
After we split quebex got a job, became a single working mother and has struggled, alot. My wife and I work full time, but I earn about 3x her income. Perhaps this is a traditional lpoking, but I feel as though I ought to pay for everything our family needs, and that anything she makes should be for herself.
Despite what I i, she will occasionally complain that there are other women in our neighborhood who can stay at home, or that she feels that she would like to work part time. She does have career ambition and would frankly go insane if she stayed at home full time.
These little, occasional comments hurt more that you women can imagine! Even joking about a man not being able to providing for his family is humiliating. I would rather suffer hnoest almost any other insult. I would bet that most me. In that position are quietly suffering but loking not say anything about it. Me too is in shapr situation…. So as i earn less this will be a wise decision that less earning person takes care for the kid so that finances remains sufficient.
And we have decided this sitting together and my wife is happy that hondst our son will have atleast one parent to look after him always do not want to leave my kid on maids or care takers. So its all depends on mutual understanding what we have experieced. My husband and I both work commission jobs, I sell commercial real estate and he sells life goodlokking.
His checks are small and consistent while mine are big and inconsistent. This gap in pay has never been a problem between us since it all goes into the same pot at the end of the day. However, I have noticed that he contributes more to domestic duties. As I gain more clients and my pay increases, I could easily see him taking the role as a stay at home dad.
We have a hard time relating to our friends since our lifestyles seem to be so different. Cheap outlet mall vs higher end shopping, nice dinner out vs Applebees, local camping trip vs Caribbean vacation, etc. So, Honets personally feel inadequate at times having to be so dependent on him. I find this thread really interesting. I work for myself and make significantly more than my former partner goodlookking working for a company. What if the man makes 20x more. And woman makes 35k a year.
Do you think that womwn is going to want to live in a dump? When hubby i I met, I made twice what he did. We had lots of fights about money. He is more of a spender than I.
He was not willing to go bare bones to pay off credit cards. Then I took a job in higher education that payed less than my consulting positions. After a couple of years he started to surpass me in income as he has made a quick rise in the ranks and now he makes almost twice what I do. While he is now more careful about spending, especially whipping out his credit attfactive, we can afford the splurges. Early on we had yours, mine and Ours ni bank accounts.
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When my wife and I were first dating, if I had found out she was making significantly more than Gopdlooking was, I think my reaction would have been to do backflips of joy. The fact that his significant other earns more than him could then be seen as a constant reminder of that fact. My fiance makes 3x as much as me.
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We talk openily about our finances, and we both ij our own businesses, so we both make variable income. Some months I make more, some months he makes more. Whoever has it, pays it. When I met my now husband, I was making more than twice his salary. When we were living together loojing we got married, we created an Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women spreadsheet that tracked how we each contributed to our joint expenses, which included rent, groceries, utilities, going out money, etc.
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People need to step off the age thing unless it causes some catastrophe. Its annoying. But each year after the 10th wimen is stressful especially when the younger partner is in early 20s. Im with you on that attracrive Im finding this much younger man to be more mature than most men I meet my age!! I am 44 and full of energy and I found that I got bored with my husband whos 47!
Most have been I always tell whomever asks me to date to see if we get along and then tell them my ahape a couple to three months into our relating. One 27 yr llooking insisted on going to take me out to lunch, traveling, hanging out at the beach and he was gyu attractive. We spent a year together. I only get involved with those that know they want an older woman to be with and have fun with normally.
Actually glad my ex husband of 22 yrs ditched me for a younger filly with his ED. The stallions were worth the divorce. Beauty is fleeting but as long as I have the edge of being wrinkle free I will use it. Only one left, to go back to his ex with whom he had an infant. Your view is its sickening so you think to made snide not so covert cutting remarks about older women staying in their lane.
Just a relationship shift overall as the times change. Beside about have a great sex with, is it true that young man needs an older woman for his security financial? Haha on everybody else!
Thank you for your comment. I also know women who are in relationships and marriages with men 10 or more years younger. But people who want to keep the male chauvinist propaganda alive will always blind themselves to real life examples such as yours. I have been with my much younger man for 4yrs. I love him and he loves i look at it like any relationship its a risk a chance nobody goodlpoking predict what will hhappen. This gives me hope!!! I am 46 and have been lookinh a shwpe year old now for almost 9 months.
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I also think it depends on the age you are when you meet that older person.
A man 20 and woman 40…a no, no but a man 40 and over wkmen a woman 55 and older that can work because the two are more mature to adapt and grow together in life than the 20 — 30 year man with older woman. Lee, on the last part of Faat comment. My boyfriend is 24, Women seeking real sex Drexel mature, fun and very smart.
I am We learn from each other and we are going to get married. I know others like us…. Some of us do.
NN— No one can predict how long a relationship will last. Not even people who are whole heartedly committed on their wedding day, as statistics prove out. If you are enjoying your relationship with the 26 yr.
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You are too old for that grow up woman I am a 47 yr old woman, my boyfriend of 10 months now is only 25 yrs old. AGE is a number! Congratulations Shante it is your time to be happy!! Yuck at your nasty assumptions and immature and icky conclusions. Omg you have me laughing my ass off. What you said is sooo true!! I love your attitude Ur awesome! I mean it! First, I predict that this thread will be very long. The only reasons I date younger women are: I just find it so exciting to have conversations with people who understand all of my cultural references and who have their own insights Fat women in quebec goodlooking in shape guy looking for attractive honest women having lived to add to my own I think your absolutely right.
Mine bf is 28 and I am 48 He also the most loving and caring. At the end of the day we all deserve to be happy. I agree on that. Age is only a number if you watch after yourself and take care of your body. Sex is amazing Nothing wrong with that.
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