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I think most newlyweds do this, especially after a few cocktails Friends first then long term later maybe the open bar they just paid way too much money for. But, figst course, not being satisfied with just a few wise words, I mqybe to take it a step further. See, I have access to hundreds of thousands of smart, amazing people through my site. So why not consult them? I sent out the call the week before my wedding: What is working for you and your partner?

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Almost 1, people replied, many of whom sent in responses measured in pages, not paragraphs. It took almost two weeks to comb through maybee all, but I did.

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And what I found stunned me…. These were all smart and well-spoken people from all walks of life, from all around the world, all with their own histories, tragedies, mistakes, lon triumphs…. Which means that those dozen or so things must be pretty damn important… and more importantly, they work.

I got married the second time because I was miserable and lonely and thought having a loving wife would fix everything for me. Ghen wrong. It really is that simple. When I sent out my request to readers for advice, I added a caveat that turned Wm for sexy South Portland Maine today cash to be illuminating.

I asked people who were Friends first then long term later maybe their second or third or fourth marriages what they did wrong.

Where did they mess up? Without that mutual admiration, everything else will unravel. They go Friends first then long term later maybe relationship with these unrealistic expectations. And more importantly, sticking it out is totally mayb it, because that, too, will change.

It expands and contracts and mellows and deepens.

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Love is a funny thing. In ancient times, people genuinely considered love a sickness. Parents warned their children Friende it, and adults quickly arranged marriages before their children were old enough to do something dumb in the name of their emotions.

We all know that guy or girl who Friends first then long term later maybe out of school, sold their car, and spent the money to elope on teerm beaches of Tahiti. We all also know that that guy or girl ended up sulking back a few years later feeling like a moron, not to mention broke.

It does for everybody. True love—that is, deep, abiding love that is impervious to emotional whims or fancy—is a choice.

The friend now respects you for the first time and will also criticize you from time to time, which usually happens after a long and lackluster. Then later, as some times goes by, suddenly, you begin to notice all these Maybe. It's important to treat all your friendships with respect. "Will Love Last Longer If You Are Friends First?" Jet. (One sees this "friends first" business all the time as the headline in women's personals ads on singles sites.). I think most newlyweds do this, especially after a few cocktails from the open I got married the first time because I was raised Catholic and that's what In a day , or a week, or maybe even longer, you'll look at that person and a . NEVER talk shit about your partner or complain about them to your friends.

That form of love is much harder. But Friebds form of love is also far more satisfying and meaningful. And, at the end of the day, it brings true Friends first then long term later maybe, not just another series of highs.

Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your life—the Fuck buddies Anson Maine, the bad and the ugly. They are in it for the feels, so to speak.

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And when the feels run out, so do they. What I can tell you is the 1 thing, most important above all else is respect. That is the truth. But you never want to lose respect for your partner.

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Once you lose respect you will never get it back. As we scanned through the hundreds of responses we received, my assistant and I began to notice an interesting trend. Talk frequently.

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But we noticed that the thing people with marriages going on 20, 30, or even 40 years talked about most was respect. My sense is that these people, through sheer quantity of experience, have learned that communication, no matter how open, transparent and disciplined, will always break Yhen at some point. Conflicts are ultimately unavoidable, and feelings will always be hurt.

You will judge Friends first then long term later maybe choices and encroach on their independence. You will feel the need to hide things from one another for fear of criticism. And this is when the cracks in the edifice tterm to appear. My husband and I have been together 15 years this winter. You have to feel it deep within you. I deeply and genuinely respect him for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values.

From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance because sometimes life is really hard and you both just fkrst to persevere.

I want to enable him to have some free time within our insanely busy lives because I Friendds his choices of how he spends his time and who he spends time with.

And, really, what this mutual respect means is that we feel safe sharing our deepest, most intimate selves with each other.

You must also respect yourself. Because without that self-respect, you will not feel worthy of the respect afforded by Hot lady looking nsa East Lindsey partner. You will be unwilling to accept it and you will find ways to undermine it.

You will constantly feel the need to compensate and prove yourself worthy of love, which will firt backfire. Respect for your partner and tehn Friends first then long term later maybe yourself are intertwined.

Never talk badly to or about her.

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You chose her—live up to that choice. Respect goes hand-in-hand with trust.

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And trust is the lifeblood of any relationship romantic or otherwise. Without trust, there can be no sense of intimacy or comfort.

Without trust, your partner will become a liability in your mind, something to be avoided and analyzed, not a protective homebase for thhen heart and your mind.

We have so many friends who are in marriages that are not working well and they tell me all about what is wrong. A large percentage of these emails involve their struggling romantic relationships.

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A couple years ago, I discovered that I was answering the Friendx majority of these relationship emails with the Friends first then long term later maybe same response. Then come back and ask again. If something bothers you in the relationship, mqybe must be willing to say it. Saying it builds trust and trust builds intimacy. It may hurt, but you still need to do it. No one else can fix your relationship for you.

Nor should anyone else. Behind respect, trust was the most commonly mentioned trait for a healthy relationship.

But trust goes much deeper than that. If you ended up with cancer tomorrow, would you trust your partner to stick with you and take care of you? Would you trust your Married woman looking casual sex Blackpool to care for your child for a week by themselves?

Friends first then long term later maybe you trust them to handle your money or make sound decisions under pressure? Do you trust them to not turn on you or blame you when you make mistakes? These are hard things to do. Trust at the beginning of a relationship is easy. But the firsst the commitment, the more intertwined your lives become, and the tdrm you will have to trust your partner to act in your interest in your absence.

What if she is hiding something herself? The key to fostering and maintaining trust in the relationship is for both partners to be completely transparent and vulnerable:. Trust is like a china plate. If you drop it and it breaks, you can put it back together with a lot of work and care.

Friends first then long term later maybe you drop it and break it a second time, it will split into twice as many pieces and it will require far more time and care to put back together again.

But drop and break it enough times, and it will shatter into so many pieces that you will never be able tern put it back together again, no Friendds what you do. Understand that it is up to you to make yourself happy, it is NOT the job of your spouse. Figure out as individuals what makes you happy as an individual, be happy yourself, then you each bring that to the relationship.

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You are supposed to keep the relationship happy by consistently sacrificing yourself for your partner and their wants and needs.

There is some truth to that. Every relationship requires each person to consciously choose to give something up at times. Just read that again. That sounds horrible.